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Right
or Wrong
Marty
Guggenheim
I was a
student leader and frequently gave public addresses on the politics
of the hour. I vividly remember in the fall of ’67, my senior year,
being allowed to speak at a Faculty Senate meeting, which I guess was
quite unusual in those days, to give students a forum. I remember speaking
on behalf of an organization of students that was pressing the faculty
to support a strike of some sort, a position that seemed like a long
shot for the faculty to take.
I remember
thinking I did well. I was nervous, addressing a faculty forum for the
first time. The person after me was Edgar Z. Friedenberg, who spoke
in his inimitable way—very eloquently, very powerfully, and totally
against the position I had just advocated. The faculty ultimately adopted
Edgar’s position.
When I
got home I was deeply depressed. The depression was not over the faculty
not doing what I had bid; that was expected. It was over the fact that
Friedenberg had disagreed with me, and I continued to believe I was
right. I was very depressed because I couldn’t make sense of that. And
he was a rather good friend.
I went
and found him and he could immediately read my face. I said, “You are
the smartest person I’ve ever met. And I can’t accept the fact that
we don’t agree.” He looked at me and grabbed my arm and he said, “Never,
never ever confuse being intelligent with being right!”
It was
a transforming remark—because it freed me. I felt so much better. He
was saying very clearly that he’s not promising he’s right when he speaks
and doesn’t want to be held to that standard. That helped me so much
throughout my life—to listen carefully and not be arrogant. Not to agree
with somebody just because I thought they were brighter than me. But
to listen carefully to their reasoning and their arguments and to independently
come to my own conclusion.
That was
a wonderful message to give a young kid.
Martin
Guggenheim is a professor at NYU Law School. He graduated from the UB
Faculty of Social Sciences in 1968.
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